Nope and Animals

I saw the recently released film ‘Nope’ twice in the past week. While I am a self confessed UFO person, I found myself thinking less and less about the “alien” aspect of ‘Nope’, and way more so on the animal / human relationship angle. It s fascinating when a movie brings you in for one thing and you leave heavily thinking about a totally different aspect of the film.

Anyways, I wanted to get some concrete thoughts on the record. After thinking about the relationship between animals and humans for a few days, here are some thoughts that make sense to me regarding ‘Nope’.

Spoilers below…

The control of animals for entertainment was a consistent theme throughout this movie. OJ and Jupe were each shaped by formative experiences with animals, but in very different ways that led them to take different approaches when dealing with the alien.

OJ understands that you don’t ultimately control the animal, you make an agreement with it, and you have to respect its rules. On the movie set at the beginning, none of the other cast or crew took OJ seriously when he tried getting them to respect the horse–they just wanted it to perform for them, and when they didn’t treat the animal with respect, it kicked.

Jupe, on the other hand, had his experience with Gordy’s Home, where the chimp was not respected, there was no attempt to make any sort of agreement with it. They put it in uncomfortable clothes and stuck it on a set with lights and applause and popping balloons, and demanded that it perform for them, and foolishly expected everything to be fine. Obviously that didn’t work out, but Jupe took the wrong lesson from the tragedy.

He went on to make a bunch of money off of the ordeal, and all these years later, he still can only see Gordy as a vehicle for entertainment. When Emerald asks him what happened on set, Jupe just tells her to watch an SNL sketch. For him, Gordy might as well have been a guy in a chimpanzee costume performing a part. Its media. Part of his failure to learn the proper lesson might be because the chimp, even after its rampage, was still affectionate towards him–and what he takes from that is a feeling that he is uniquely capable of getting animals to perform as he intends. What he doesn’t realize is that Gordy approached him calmly because he was not a threat–he was hiding, making himself small, the tablecloth was covering his eyes. Gordy didn’t attack him because he was, inadvertently, respecting Gordy’s rules. But Jupe doesn’t understand that–he thinks it’s just because Gordy likes him. He’s attributing the agency of a performer to Gordy again, as though Gordy were an actor in a suit and not a wild animal.

So, the alien. The reveal that it’s an alien creature and not a UFO is important–its not intelligent beings piloting a ship, just like Gordy isn’t a guy in a chimpanzee costume. It’s an animal. Ascribing human logic or reasoning to it is a mistake, its a creature with its own rules and we can learn to roughly understand those rules, but we can’t project OUR rules onto it.

Jupe never understands this. He doesn’t care to learn the creature’s rules, he wants it to follow his, and he wants it to perform for him. The creature doesn’t like to he looked at, and Jupe fills rows of bleachers with people to stare directly at it. It’s putting a chimpanzee on a TV set all over again. Something is bound to go wrong, you can’t force a wild animal to follow a script it doesn’t even understand.

OJ, on the other hand, understands this. Once he learns that the “UFO” is actually an animal, he knows that he can learn it’s rules, and form a set of rough agreements with it. OJ isn’t trying to project human agency onto the creature, he knows he can’t make it play a part or follow a script. He has to figure out how the creature operates, and then work backwards from there.

There’s a lot going on with this movie, but that’s what resonated with me the most. Jupe is a really good foil to OJ in this regard.

‘Nope’ is very different than I think most expect. It has many popcorn movie moments a summer blockbuster should, but there is a much deeper movie here than an alien flick. And that’s a good thing.

Luca – AGE 6

Unbelievable Luca is 7. It’s really amazing to think he’s already on his own to his own little life. It seems like only yesterday I was working on his newborn video.

This year Luca has done amazing things at school and quite honestly surprised Lindsey and I. We couldn’t be prouder of him and the little man he is becoming.

Happy Birthday Luca. We love you…

Leo – AGE 3

Leo is really coming into his own little person. He’s grown tremendously over the past year and working on his video really made the growth stand out to me.

It also occurred to me this year was the last before school starts for Leo. It truly is amazing how times flies.

Happy Birthday little buddy. Mommy and Daddy love you bunches!

Liam – AGE 10

10 years was always the goal. 10 years of videos. It’s kind of hard to imagine Liam has hit that sweet spot.

It’s been an amazing journey for me to make these videos. Late nights, editing with just me and the content. I know it sounds silly but they really turn into great memories.

Liam is growing so fast it’s hard to keep track. I guess that’s what the videos are for.

Love you Liam.

I’m am so proud to be your dad.

Inspiration4 Documentary

The Inspiration4 mission is quite remarkable. The short version is SpaceX is launching an all civilian space flight on September 15th that will orbit the earth for 3 days.

I started mentioning this to some coworkers a was sad to learn no one really is aware of this amazing story.

So I was super happy to hear that Netflix is doing a very unique documentary series on the inspiration4 event!

From what I understand, Netflix will be adding episodes in realtime and be filming the preparation for launch, launch, in flight orbiting, return and after launch!

Please tune into this. It’s simply amazing.

Paris 2021

After delays, setbacks and reschedules…. We went to Paris! It’s crazy to think we actually went and came back already. Lindsey and I had such an amazing time.

I Always knew I wanted to somehow document this amazing experience. I was torn to what medium though. Initially I thought writing would be ideal mainly because I didn’t want to take myself out of the moments by filming. Also, I have a ton of video projects this year and I really didn’t want to add one more.

The closer we got to the trip though, video was really the only option. A trip of this magnitude deserved a proper video. Lindsey deserved a well documented account of what we did, where we went and our emotions and observations in real time.

The video ended up being the longest I’ve ever made. My previous longest; ‘A Fall Day in Connecticut‘ was a bit long but very chronological to edit. This was a different type of beast. I had over 200 hundred video clips to splice and dice and editing pretty much started the minute we got home so I could make the deadline of a surprise Bday present for Lindsey!

All in all, I am very proud of the finished product. It was a thrill to work on and to re-experience such an amazing trip with such an amazing person.

I hope this will prove as a worthy gift and an accurate retelling of such a magical experience.

Happy Birthday Linds!

Unidentified Aerial Phenomena Report

If you don’t care, I understand. If this topic doesn’t matter to you, I understand. But to someone like me who has followed UFO’s since I was young enough to stare at the stars and wonder; this little 9 page report is a big deal.

Officially, this is the first ever acknowledgment from the United States Government that there are aircrafts that:

  • We cannot identify.
  • They don’t belong to us.
  • They pose a threat.
  • The technology is far and away unachievable in our current society.

But, I also hear the voices of my fellow UFO enthusiasts on how much of a disappointment this report is. Taking a step back, I think we all had our expectations way too high.

I choose to see this report as a shift in course and I really think every human should read it.

Who knows, maybe my kids will read this one day after I’m long gone and say this was the very beginning of real disclosure.

I’ve added the link below for historically purposes!

** Preliminary Assessment: Unidentified Aerial Phenomena Report **

2020 In Review

Obviously 2020 was a nightmare for many reasons. One could look back and see all the bad. That’s an easy box to check. Maybe if you look deeper you can discover more, though. Maybe you grew as a person. Maybe you gained compassion. Maybe just maybe, you came out for the better. Looking through my posts recently, I had a surprising year of growth as a human. I lost loved ones but gained perspectives. 2020 was many things, but trying to erase it from memory would be doing ourselves a disservice, in my opinion.

For as little as I posted, the site had the most annual views since its existence. People are home so that sort of makes sense. But the driving force was definitely ‘Saying Goodbye to Papa‘. Which got enormous attention and increased my record for single view count 9 times over. My family shared it on facebook and I’m thinking that everyone in Waterbury, CT read it.

Also, this year 4 videos made the top 10. ‘A Fall Day in Connecticut‘ was a standout among these. With a lot of email participation afterwards, that was pretty cool.

The most challenging post I wrote though was actually a list. ‘35 Things I’ve Learned in 35 Years‘ turned out to be really difficult. The idea started with a simple premise and before long, twisted into a challenging task of being honest and reflective.

2020 Top 10 by site traffic:

  1. Saying Goodbye to Papa
  2. Teacher. Mother. Wife. 
  3. 35 Things I’ve Learned in 35 Years
  4. A Fall Day in Connecticut
  5. Liam – AGE 9
  6. We Don’t Need to Whisper (2006)
  7. Luca – AGE 4
  8. Bitty and Beau’s Coffee
  9. The 79th Organ
  10. Coronavirus Chronicles 4

An interesting list to say the least. I have no idea what 2021 will bring. I don’t think anybody does. But whatever comes, i’ll try and write or document honestly. 

As always, thank you for taking the time and reading this site. Nothing is more valuable than time and personal attention. So I truly value anyone who visits my site. I know the posts are far and few in-between. But I appreciate some people are still around to read when I click submit.

Happy New Year : )

Leo – AGE 2

What a year 2020 has been. Leo is 3 now which is crazy to think. I remember Lindsey and I eating at longhorn when she told me she was pregnant. Time flies for sure.

Leo has grown so much this year. He is talking a bunch and is truly turning into his own little man.

Happy Birthday Leo!